11.30.2009

music to my ears!



I just read this article on parenting from last week's Time Magazine... if you have a minute, read it. I personally felt very liberated - and also a little sheepish (sometimes, I think I'm totally a helicopter parent, even though I never, ever meant to be one).

How do you guys let go of your parenting anxiety? How do give your kids room to just be kids? I'm curious for practical feedback here...

11.23.2009

backyard field guide



One of my favorite parts of Crossing to Safety is the description of how Charity's mother, Aunt Emily, orchestrated summer for her children when they'd go off into the woods for summer:

"Aunt Emily believes in the freedom of summer. She doesn't much care what the children do so long as they do something, and know what they are doing. It is idleness and randomness of mind that she cannot abide. When the children go on a hike, she packs bird and flower guides in their knapsacks, and quizzes them on their return to see if they have learned anything. When she accompanies them on an overnight camping trip, sleeping in her own worn pup tent, they can count on instructive fireside talks on the stars. And on rainy days such as this she sits like a confident spider in the midst of her web until boredom drives all the children on the Point to her porch, where she reads to them or teaches them French..."

So brilliant, and so how I wish I was more like as a mother - wish being the operative word in that sentence (I seem to spend my time engaged in activities like fishing gum from the jaws of the dog rather than reading Hiawatha to my children). But we did have a brief Aunt Emily moment yesterday afternoon, after I came across the idea on this great-but-now-defunct blog. The plan is to start with our small yard and then move on to our street. Then we will probably have lost all interest but hey, for now it's a fantastic plan and one that will keep us busy this Thanksgiving week.









Happy Thanksgiving!

11.17.2009

a little français


Since September I've been speaking French to my girls. For some strange (and happy) reason, the girls love it. Their favorite and first learned words have been, not surprisingly, potty-talk words. We also pray in French before every meal and all the kids are now able to do this. I think it's the repetition that's important.

As a reward, my kids occasionally get to watch Pere Castor cartoons. I love watching them too. They are sweet, and old-fashioned-ish. I'm super picky about what cartoons I'll allow them to watch. (Don't you think most of the modern cartoons are way too sassy for kids?) Pere Castor stories and simple, beautifully written and illustrated. You can also find books to match. I bought them from Amazon France . Is there any one else out there in blogworld who is teaching a foreign language to their kids? Any more ideas or suggestions?

11.02.2009

inspiration



Steph sent me these pages from Marie-Claire Maison, a magazine I wish I could find around here. So inspiring. I love the lamps in that dining room...and that blue iron bed. And even more than the images I love and appreciate thoughtful friends who take the time to stick pages in the mail for you that they think you might like. Kindness never fails to make my day.